How to Make Her Want You Without Smothering Her With Attention

Quite frequently, when a woman meets a nice guy and despite all of the positives that she sees in him, she still does not want to date him... it usually boils down to the fact that the nice guy ends up smothering her with too much attention. Yes, there is such a thing as giving a woman too much attention, as hard as that might be to believe. And if you have been guilty of giving way too much attention to women in the past, only to see that her attraction for you died out, then this is a mistake that you do not want to make again.

Some guys come to the conclusion after getting rejected for giving a woman too much attention, that they should act completely opposite and start being kind of a jerk, but that is not always the best course, either. Extremes can be a good thing at times, but this is not one of them. If you want to make her want you, then you have to know how to do this without smothering her with too much attention.

Here's a little advice on how to make her want you without giving her so much attention it makes her lose any attraction towards you:

One of the easiest things and also one of the most effective things that you can do is to maintain your own lifestyle, no matter how much you like being around her. You might feel like you want to be around her 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, but you need to be able to shake off that feeling and do your own thing. Get up with the guys once in a while, hang out with the fellas from work. Show her that you are not going to be all over her and smothering her with your attention.

The other thing, and a really common reason why guys feel like they need to give a woman too much attention, comes from insecurity. If you really like a woman, and there is a part of you that feels like maybe you are not good enough or that you might lose her, it's going to be hard to resist the temptation to shower her with attention. This is something that can easily be remedied.

When you know how to use things like sexual tension and the power of being mysteriously tempting to a woman, you don't have to worry.

The reality is, if you feel like you might lose her and that is why you give her so much attention, chances are you will lose her and it will be because of all of that attention. Instead, working on using sexual tension to your advantage to make her want you and the power of being a 'mystery' to keep her thinking about you. It works.